Okay so in my last post, I wrote about BS and how upset I was with him because he ignored me for reasons untold.
He kept callng me nonstop so I decided to pick up his call and hear what he wanted to say. He wants to talk face to face about the whole situation. Of cos I was with my bitch attitude the whole time, being extra mean to him. (Im a really nice girl) . Anyway I decided to hear him out. U know listen to what he had to say. And I must say he really told me. He gave me a very legit reason as to why he refused to speak with me. To his defence, he said he had to give me time to think about what I wanted and where I was going with my decision. He had a problem with vaca boo. He felt I should not be talking to two people becuase he wouldnt do it. He said its unfair to him and he believes with time I would decide on what I want. He did own up to thinking about me, asking my family about me and recieving my phone calls and messages. I figured vaca boo had to do with it but I didnt think ignoring me made it any better. Anyway After a 2 hour make up session of talking and putting our point accross, I decided to forgive him. Hearing his side of the story definately changed a lot of views on my end. I feel sometimes we just need to hear them out. Lsten to what they have to say without jumpin into conclusions. When they speak and its Bu*SH** , thats when we go into our F**K ni&&a mode. And do what I had originally suggested. Im glad to have my friend back. But please dont get me wrong, what I said in the previous post is all rite. Its just we need to listen to both sides of the story before we come into a conclusion. I hope you understand Be strong always and GIRLS STILL RULE!!! Im ff to bed** GOOD NIGHT** ~GREEN~
u know men always flip issues on us and barely take responsibilty of their actions. He disappears for a month with out a word, comes back and expects you to hear him out? I think dat is incredibly selfish. If he could give his reasons now he could have done them b4 goin MIA
ReplyDeleteU know... I totally agree with you Jayla. Its just a shame that we females have to go through these unfortunate events.... but at the end of the day it comes down to being strong and keeping your cool. Guys are worse than females when it comes to expressing thier feeling, so sometimes they have good valid reason but don't know how to tell and then decide to do the wrong thing by going south (the wrong direction).
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