So I decided to keep the communication going with vaca boo. At first I thought...who in their right mind talks to someone so far... All the way in a different continent.
I dont know about a lot of people but one thing im not smart with all those miles and km measuring how far>? >>what I do is price the distance of the relationship (last minute prices). I believe you never know how bad you want to see somene until the weekend comes and you miss them and then you just buy that last minute ticket the night before you leave. I have talked to a boy in Atlanta, I called it a $300 dollar realtionship. I called that long till I started talking to vaca boo.
So vaca boo, he is $2000 away from me. so we definately dont have that last minute syndrome kickin in. I aint diddys daughter or the presidents daughter, Im an average working class college lady living in america. And you know that saying college kids are always broke...YOU DAMN RITE!!! after spending $40 every weekend on clubbing, its understandable.
Anyway, we talk almost everyday and I actually think im liking this longdistance thing even more. There are so many positive in long distance, You get to know each other more mentally and not pysically. We talk about everything. I started trusting him because now I even talk without thinking or watching what I say. I love it when I could do that with someone. thats TRUST in my book.
Long distance is Hard because you miss out on all those little important things like Valentines day. It saddens me to think I have to spend it all by myself even though in another country I could have been struck with the cupid arrow...(all inlove). And also you dont feel like you get enough attention. We ladies LOVVVVEEE attention. we all believe "if my man dont give me the attention I need, I might just have to find it somewhere else" believe it or not its true.
Im not in a long distance relationship (YET i guess) but a lot of things scare me about it. If I end up in one, I definately dont wanna get tired or sick of it. I talked to a few people in long distance and they love it. They say they have never cheated (that they know of)and that its all about mutual behavior meaning they both call, they both visit each other, etc. I thot it was cute and in 2009 having a 50 50 relationship is not that bad especially since all we want to sing and chant these days are words like I'M MS. INDEPENDENT.
anyway rapping this up, I really like brandys new song. LONG DIstance is hard but one day you would eventually be together forever.
TIME FOR BED..Muah
xxGREENxx
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