Hey BLOGSTARRRZZ
Its me again..GREAT GREEN at your service!!!
So I have come to the realization that there are a lot of girls out there who find it so hard to find a guy... Listen to me...from experience... you have to go out of you "usual circle" go and explore...meet new people....who know people and could introduce you to some people, who in that crowd you could select someone that could end up being the one...
First things first.... tell yourself that you dont want to be an option but a priority!!! very important message!!! beig a priority keeps us ladies feeling confident and boosts our self esteeme. I just started telling myself this every time because I feel i deserve this and this is something I would do for him so it would be nice if he did the same! About a week ago, I stopped talking to my booski because I feel he wasnt making me a priority and its not fair game. As u noticed I sed booski not boyfriend because we were both not ready to be in relationships.. and when I got ready he still refused because he is scared i would break his heart (due to one of my past behaviors)hehe
SEcondly... go out and have fun.... go to parties, clubbing, to bars, house parties, friends houses for little get togethers..just go to a place were you could meet new people.
my booski and I stopped talking because i felt it wasnt fair game! I wrote him a letter and hoped if he wanted me bk he would call and beg. He really isnt that kind of guy but still I wanted that treatment to feel like THAT GIRL but nope he called me and couldnt talk about it..so I cut him off. The following weekend, I went to a PARTYYY!!! were I was determined to have a blast.. It was a house party but still my portfolio was on empty.. HAd to go refill it ASAP. so followed #2. went out and had a blast.. met me new friends and there were a lot of guys there
thirdly... look Hot all the time you go out!!! guys like attractive girls... i dont mean slutty (cos that gives them a sexual image..not so gud.... for now that is...) So I went looking very decent but HOT... didnt have to show ass or tits to look attractive. Got my makeup on point, my heelz on, and a nice outfit and I was good to go.. compared to the rest of the girls there... I dont blame the gus for running to me.. cos I had maself looking GOOD... Im just speaking reality!!!hehe
fourthly... When guys approach you be very friendly and fun and if they ask for your number just give it to them..... Its called stocking your GUY PORTFOLIO... do not collect thiers..just give them and let them do the calling... thats making yourself feel like a priority..if they wanna talk ...they call you!!!! Give it to guys that you think look like potential good investments... limit it to 6... no more than 6 and no less than 2. I drank a cup of long Island just to have a lil energy boost.. mennn was I having fun... I wasnt inside partying and rubbing myself on the dudes.. I was outside chilling in a more social setting. being funny, cracking jokes, and of cos flirting.. so at different times I had different guys come up to me.... spit alyrics and then asked for my nos.. some guys got the X cos I wasnt feeling them.. but some of them were able to impress me.. either thier look ( i always looka t thier shoes..it says a lot about a guy) if they looked worth my time and investment... I gave em my nos... I ended up my day with 5 guys... if they called me ..cool...if they didnt thier loss.. I kept all the convos short and sweet... Cant tellem everything about you...then there is no fun in getting to know you...SO!!! on my way home, I got a text message from three of them checking if i got home safe.... didnt reply.. but acknoledged thier time...the next morning I replied saying thanx and it was ice meeting them. the other two called the next morning. TRUST me... now thats how it should be... you call em first/.. show me you are worth my time ...and we would go from there!!! now I have 5 stocks.... its the getting to know you process... Im keeping it strictl friends...establishing a friendship is very important before anything else.
Just remember there is nothing wrong with filling your portfolio...it doesnt make you a slut..neither does it make you a player... they are not your boyfriends, or boy toys... you are just simply multitasking.... If anything, you are simply .. making friends, having fun, and looking for mr.. right the healthiest way... without being stressed!!! Youre single so getting to know 5 guys at a time is not a problem.. Just make sure you are comfortable and enjoying yourslef at the same time...
Hope i was at ure service!! Try it out.. and lets hear the results or even what you think....
so ma blogstarrrrzz..go out!!! you are single ready to mingle!!!
Full of love...
~GREAT GREEN~
